Real Talk!

It was with mixed feelings that Fabian and I loaded the Goldwing today. Sadly, yesterday the body of young Brandon Zilney was pulled from local waters. He disappeared on his way to work last week, via boat.

Many of the children here, are raised on the waters. They are taught the dangers of weather and waves. Still, accidents happen. This community is the veritable village that raises a child and in the case of Brandon, he leaves a big hole in the fabric of our world. He also leaves identical twin, Lance, two younger brothers to mourn, loving parents, adoring extended family, neighbours and friends.

Fabian remains at a loss for words... and yesterday, when he met with Brandon's father, Lyle, he offered what he said was the longest hug he has ever given another man. "It is every father's worst nightmare", he says he managed to mutter...

When a child goes missing or passes, they become everybody's son or daughter... but Brandon was a particularly popular boy... a prankster and comic, with a smile that lit the room... and he was always available to lend a hand at community happenings. A sportsman and outdoorsman... the kind of boy you simply loved.

Lyle understood when Fabian explained that our prior commitment to an Ontario Real Estate Association Charity Ride will keep us from attending the wake and services that will commemorate Brandon's life and passing.

Earlier this evening, we left our home in the suburbs of Bancroft and made our way to Belleville where we will hook up with the other riders, in the morning. The weather was beautiful, blue sky, fluffy clouds and the birds were playful in the breeze.

We are off... away on this adventure... but our hearts remain at home, with our community.